Should Social Media Use Be Addressed in Your Child Custody Arrangements?

Along with the typical concerns that have occupied parents for generations, today’s mothers and fathers must also decide how they want their children to interact with social media platforms. For parents who are divorced or separated, the challenge can be even more complicated. A cell phone might be the primary means of communication between a youth and a parent who lives somewhere else, but without proper monitoring, that device could also expose a child to various types of online dangers.

North Carolina lawmakers have introduced legislation that would stablish stronger controls on how young people use social media and how their information is shared by platforms such as TikTok and Instagram. No matter what laws are passed though, parents are the first, and most important, line of defense against digital hazards. If you’re in the process of negotiating child custody terms, or believe that a revision might be warranted to your current parenting plan, it might be wise to acknowledge the pivotal role social media plays in shaping the lives of children and teenagers.

Including social media guidelines in a parenting plan can provide clarity and consistency across households. No mother or father wants to be in the position of explaining to their child why they prohibit a certain activity that their ex allows. Specific terms regarding a child’s social media use can help in safeguarding children against potential online dangers, like cyberbullying, inappropriate content and privacy risks. Language addressing online activity could relate to one or more of the following:

• Age restrictions — Parents should agree on age-appropriate platforms and discuss which social media accounts are permissible. This includes deciding when a child is mature enough to manage their profiles independently.
• Monitoring and privacy — Openly sharing concerns and responsibilities regarding monitoring and privacy settings can prevent miscommunication and help parents maintain healthy oversight without unduly restrictive measures.
• Time management — Social media use should balance with other essential activities such as studying, physical activity and family time. Setting time controls within the parenting plan can help manage your child’s screen time effectively.

Incorporating social media guidelines in custody agreements is a good way to avert conflict and ambiguity related to online activities. By discussing and formalizing expectations, parents can create a unified approach that reinforces healthy social media habits.

The Moore Law Office, PLLC in Asheville advises North Carolina parents on child custody issues and other family law matters. Contact us by calling 828-258-8053 or use our online form to set an initial consultation.